friends; and pleasant would life be with such companions. But if you cannot have them. on good mutual terms, you cannot have them. Prudence.

E shall have his own society. We can

HE
love nothing but nature. The most

wonderful talents, the most meritorious exer-
tions really avail very little with us; but near-
ness or likeness of nature-how beautiful is
the ease of its victory! Persons approach us
famous for their beauty, for their accomplish-
ments, worthy of all wonder for their charms
and gifts: they dedicate their whole skill to the
hour and the company, with very imperfect
result. To be sure, it would be very ungrate-
ful in us not to praise them very loudly. Then,
when all is done, a person of related mind, a
brother or sister by nature, comes to us so
softly and easily, so nearly and intimately, as
if it were the blood in our proper veins, that
we feel as if some one was gone, instead of an-
other having come: we are utterly relieved and
refreshed: it is a sort of joyful solitude.
Spiritual Laws.

Companionship

Mutual Understanding

Inter

course

I

KNOW nothing which life has to offer so satisfying as the profound good understanding, which can subsist, after much exchange of good offices, between two virtuous men, each of whom is sure of himself, and sure of his friend. It is a happiness which postpones all other gratifications, and makes politics, and commerce, and churches cheap. For, when men shall meet as they ought, each a benefactor, a shower of stars, clothed with thoughts, with deeds, with accomplishments, it should be the festival of nature which all things announce. Of such friendship, love in the sexes is the first symbol, as all other things are symbols of love. Those relations to the best men, which, at one time, we reckoned the romances of youth, become, in the progress of the character, the most solid enjoyment. Character.

DO, then, with my friends as I do with my books. I would have them where I can find them, but I seldom use them. We must have society on our own terms, and admit or exclude it on the slightest

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cause. Then, though I prize my friends,
I cannot afford to talk with them and study
their visions, lest I lose my own.
It is
true, next week I shall have languid times,
when I can well afford to occupy myself
with foreign objects; then I shall regret
the lost literature of your mind, and wish
you were by my side again. But if you
come, perhaps you will fill my mind only
with new visions, not with yourself, but
with your lustres, and I shall not be able
any more than now to converse with you.
So I will owe to my friends this evanescent
intercourse. I will receive from them not
what they have, but what they are. They
shall give me that which properly they
cannot give me, but which radiates from
them. But they shall not hold me by any
relations less subtle and pure. We will
meet as though we met not, and part as
though we parted not.
Prudence.

THE

'HE higher the style we demand of friendship, of course the less easy to establish it with flesh and blood. We walk

High Ideals

Seek
Worthy
Friends

alone in the world. Friends such as we desire are dreams and fables. But a sublime hope cheers ever the faithful heart, that elsewhere, in other regions of the universal power, souls are now acting, enduring, and daring, which can love us, and which we can love. We may congratulate ourselves that the period of nonage, of follies, of blunders, and of shame, is passed in solitude, and when we are finished men, we shall grasp herioc hands in heroic hands. Only be admonished by what you already see, not to strike leagues of friendship with cheap persons, where no friendship can be. Our impatience betrays us into rash and foolish alliances, which no God attends. By persisting in your path, though you forfeit the little, you gain the great. You become pronounced. You demonstrate yourself, so as to put yourself out of the reach of false relations, and you draw to you the first-born of the world-those rare pilgrims whereof only one or two wander in nature at once, and before whom the vulgar great shew as spectres and shadows merely. Friendship.

ETTER be a nettle in the side of

BETT

your

friend than his echo. The condition which high friendship demands is ability to do without it. To be capable of that high office requires great and sublime parts. There must be very two, before there can be very one. Let it be an alliance of two large formidable natures, mutually beheld, mutually feared, before yet they recognise the deep identity which beneath these disparities unites them. Let us buy our entrance to this guild by a long probation. Why should we desecrate noble and beautiful souls by intruding on them? Why insist on rash personal relations with your friend? Why go to his house, or know his mother and brother and sisters? Why be visited by him at your own? Are these things material to our covenant? Leave this touching and clawing. Let him be to me a spirit. A message, a thought, a sincerity, a glance from him, I want, but not news, nor pottage. I can get politics, and chat, and neighbourly conveniences, from cheaper companions. To my friend I write

Individuality

The
Higher
Giving