Necessary Losses: The Loves, Illusions, Dependencies, and Impossible Expectations That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to GrowSimon and Schuster, 2010年5月8日 - 450 頁 The classic New York Times bestseller about the many forms of loss we experience throughout our lives, and the necessity of letting go. In Necessary Losses, Judith Viorst turns her considerable talents to a serious and far-reaching subject: how we grow and change through the losses that are a certain and necessary part of life. She argues persuasively that through the loss of our mothers’ protection, the loss of the impossible expectations we bring to relationships, the loss of our younger selves, and the loss of our loved ones through separation and death, we gain deeper perspective, true maturity, and fuller wisdom about life. She has written a book that is both life-affirming and life-changing. Drawing on psychoanalysis, literature, and personal experience, Necessary Losses is a philosophy for understanding and accepting a universal human experience. “One of the most sensitive and comprehensive books about the human condition I have read in a long time.” —Harold S. Kushner, author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People “Viorst has synthesized a vast amount of research into a very readable and generous whole.” —The New York Times Book Review |
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... continue to expand our physical universe and our self . Practice makes perfect , crawling yields to walking , and at this momentous point in the practicing stage , upright locomotion per- mits such vistas , such possibilities , such ...
... continue to expand our physical universe and our self . Practice makes perfect , crawling yields to walking , and at this momentous point in the practicing stage , upright locomotion per- mits such vistas , such possibilities , such ...
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... elaborated by later experi- ences . But in some form or other they will continue to mold us . It is true , of course , that people sharing strikingly similar histo- ries may emerge from them in strikingly different ways . STANDING ALONE 47.
... elaborated by later experi- ences . But in some form or other they will continue to mold us . It is true , of course , that people sharing strikingly similar histo- ries may emerge from them in strikingly different ways . STANDING ALONE 47.
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... continue to edit our " I. " But between ages two and three our internal world will begin to possess some measure of constancy . Self - constancy : An integrated enduring mental picture of an " I. ” And object constancy : An inner image ...
... continue to edit our " I. " But between ages two and three our internal world will begin to possess some measure of constancy . Self - constancy : An integrated enduring mental picture of an " I. ” And object constancy : An inner image ...
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... continue reaching our hand out for the toy . But when , instead , our mother responds to the question in our eyes by misreading our needs , or replacing them with her own , we can't trust the truth of what we feel or do . Her lack of ...
... continue reaching our hand out for the toy . But when , instead , our mother responds to the question in our eyes by misreading our needs , or replacing them with her own , we can't trust the truth of what we feel or do . Her lack of ...
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Lessons in Love | 66 |
THE FORBIDDEN AND THE IMPOSSIBLE | 81 |
Passionate Triangles | 100 |
Anatomy and Destiny | 115 |
Good as Guilt | 130 |
Saving the Children | 205 |
Family Feelings | 223 |
Love and Mourning | 237 |
Shifting Images | 265 |
Grow Old I Grow Old | 284 |
The ABC of Dying | 305 |
Reconnections | 325 |
BIBLIOGRAPHY | 413 |
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第 396 頁 - All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players: They have their exits, and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts, His acts being seven ages. At first, the infant, Mewling and puking in the nurse's arms; And then, the whining school-boy, with his satchel, And shining morning face, creeping like snail Unwillingly to school: And then, the lover; Sighing like furnace, with a woeful ballad Made to his mistress...
第 86 頁 - And Abel, he also brought of the firstlings of his flock and of the fat thereof. And the LORD had respect unto Abel and to his offering: but unto Cain and to his offering he had not respect.
第 396 頁 - With spectacles on nose, and pouch on side ; His youthful hose, well sav'd, a world too wide For his shrunk shank, and his big manly voice, Turning again toward childish treble, pipes And whistles in his sound. Last scene of all, That ends this strange eventful history, Is second childishness, and mere oblivion ; Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans every thing.
第 364 頁 - The phases and life tasks, defined elsewhere in this dictionary, are trust versus mistrust, autonomy versus shame and doubt, initiative versus guilt, industry versus inferiority, identity versus role confusion, intimacy versus isolation, generativity versus stagnation, and integrity versus despair.
第 411 頁 - It's not that I'm afraid to die. I just don't want to be there when it happens.
第 145 頁 - Nothing I cared, in the lamb white days, that time would take me Up to the swallow thronged loft by the shadow of my hand, In the moon that is always rising. Nor that riding to sleep I should hear him fly with the high fields And wake to the farm forever fled from the childless land.
第 396 頁 - With eyes severe and beard of formal cut, Full of wise saws and modern instances; And so he plays his part. The sixth age shifts Into the lean and...
第 396 頁 - The sixth age shifts Into the lean and slipper'd pantaloon, With spectacles on nose and pouch on side, His youthful hose, well saved, a world too wide For his shrunk shank ; and his big manly voice, Turning again toward childish treble, pipes And whistles in his sound. Last scene of all, That ends this strange eventful history, Is second childishness and mere oblivion, Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything.